If I Had My Way

 


To:         Kathleen Parker - kathleenparker@washpost.com

From:     Doug Skoglund - skoglund@pdmsb.com

Date:     Monday, September 6, 2010 10:00 am CDT

Subject: Social Media

The headline under your picture on the Washington Post Outline & Opinions Page says:

Facebook is our best hope for peace

...while the title of your column says:

Facebook and social media offer the potential of peace

...the first headline should have been:

Social Media is our best hope for peace

The distinction  that I am trying to make is that the inclusion of a particular approach (Facebook) puts your column into  the middle of a competitive fray -- while Social Media is a generalized term for a non-competitive (cooperative) process.

I would like to try and clarify the situation in an attempt to answer the following (your words):

We seem to understand the opportunities social networking provides for commercial and political purposes. Barack Obama is president in no small part because of the grass-roots facility of social media. That same power can be harnessed for peace. In fact, it is happening under our noses.

But why not be strategic about something so easily channeled for good?

As a matter of fact -- we should be strategic about it -- and that strategy needs to begin with an understanding of the problem and what we are trying to accomplish.

Obviously, I can't be comprehensive in a simple e-mail, nor can you in a simple column -- we are talking about a potential book here. Be that as it may, let's try for some clarification -- may we fill in the details over time.

Life is a cooperative venture -- not a competitive game. Democracy, as defined in the Constitution of the United States, is a cooperative process, where people work cooperatively to develop a consensus (I hate the word, compromise) followed by a vote to resolve final differences. The forces of evil (or whatever you might like to call them) have turned the whole thing into a competitive game -- for selfish reasons (it pays -- handsomely).

And so -- our frame for discussion has changed. The battle is no longer Republicans vs. Democrats or Conservatives vs. Liberals -- it has become Competitors vs. Cooperators. And since the winners are winning the task of conversion will be much more formidable -- we need to turn the cooperators into winners (at the ballot box, at least).

And, Ms. Parker, I have some additional ideas that I would like to discuss, at your convenience. The answer lies in a proliferation of social medias.

In hopes of exciting some discussion I am posting this page on the following web sites.

http://ifihadmyway.com

http://nationalcomputerassociation.com

Thanks for your time,

Doug Skoglund - skoglund@pdmsb.com

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